Friday, April 27, 2012

Miscarriage! Stillborn! Dead!!

Hurtful words.

How can people use these words. It would be better if people just said DEAD!!! I mean that's what they are right they are DEAD.  My brother was born sleeping not STILLBORN! Who the heck came up with these words MISCARRIAGE? STILLBORN? Was it someone who doesn't have feelings? Because these words hurt in every way that they can. I wish they could use different words if it was something that was so hurtful to the people who have lost babies.

One of our family friends she has to babies that went to heaven, she lost them around the early weeks, She HATES the word miscarriage. She says she did not miscarry her angel babies, she says that she wasn't Promised her babies... Mom was, we were. We were promised Seth. Mom carried him for 39 weeks. If you say that you aren't promised after carring a baby for 39 weeks then you are wrong. We were promised Seth. We knew him.. Yes is was on the inside not the outside, But he would kicks us when we put our hands on moms tummy. We watched and looked at him on the ultra sound. Thats a Promise.


Why did our promise get broken? How is it okay to take away a baby. 6 weeks-41 weeks. How is that OKAY? I want to know why? How? What did we ever do? Nothing that's right NOTHING at all. I wish this was just a nightmare, I wish I could wake up. I wish this pain would go away.

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